The Hardened Heart Checklist

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✨ Hardened Heart Relationship Checklist

Discern the Truth Before You Say “I Do.”

Are you dating with intention? Preparing for marriage? Or simply wanting clarity about the person you’re giving your heart to? The Hardened Heart Relationship Checklist™ is a powerful, faith-based tool designed to help you recognize emotional maturity, responsiveness, and spiritual readiness before you commit.

In today’s world, many people don’t reveal their true character until it’s too late and many times we ignore the red flags until it's sometimes too late. Hardened hearts often stay hidden or unaddressed until after the vows — leading to unnecessary pain, confusion, disappointment and even divorce. This checklist equips you with the wisdom to identify red flags early, ask the right questions, and confidently discern whether someone is truly capable of love, growth, empathy, and godly partnership.

What's Included and What You’ll Gain:

  • 30 categorized questions to guide you in discerning where you and your spouse or soon to be spouse stand in readiness

  • 4 insightful diagnostic questions rooted in emotional intelligence and biblical wisdom

  • Eye-opening explanations to help you recognize avoidance, defensiveness, lack of empathy, and spiritual immaturity

  • A simple, practical format you can use on your own or with a qualified mentor

  • Clarity, confidence, and peace as you move forward in dating or courtship

Perfect For:

  • Singles dating intentionally

  • Engaged couples preparing for marriage

  • Married couples struggling to understand what is going wrong in their relationship

  • Coaches, mentors, ministers, and anyone guiding others through relationships

  • Anyone seeking discernment, emotional intelligence, and spiritual clarity

Why This Matters:

A hardened heart is the root of divorce, broken homes, emotional distance, and marriages lacking intimacy and connection. But with wisdom, prayer, and the right tools, you can see the truth early — and choose a partner whose heart is soft, responsive, loving, and aligned with God.

Download Includes:

  • Clean, printable PDF checklist

  • Warm, faith-based disclaimer

  • Easy-to-follow guidance you can revisit any time

Equip yourself with this simple discernment tool.
Walk into your future with wisdom, clarity, and confidence.
Your heart is worth protecting.